From Raleigh:

Take Highway US64 / US-264 East, toward Rocky Mount. Take the exit toward Wendell. Turn right on to Business 64. Go 1.5 miles to NC-97 (W.Gannon Avenue) and turn left. Go aproximately 1.4 miles and turn left onto Lanier Lane. Hempstede will be on your left.

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